Friday, March 24, 2017 67 Comments
NOT Your Mama’s Organization
by Madelyn Griffith-Haynie, CTP, CMC, ACT, MCC, SCAC
In support of the Challenges Inventory™ & ADD Coaching Series
my edited reposting of a five year old article
If at first you don’t succeed . . .
I know. I’m right there with you. You’ve read all the books and made a good stab at following their advice, and you still live in what might affectionately be called a pig stye if only it were that neat.
Give it up!
Those books were NOT written for you and me. They were written for fundamentally organized people with relatively reliable follow-through skills and abilities.
They simply needed a little how-to help and advice.
I don’t work their way.
Do YOU work their way?
How DO you work?
If you don’t get real about how you work, you will never be able to determine what YOU need to do to to keep from spending half your life looking for things that were “right here a minute ago” — and the other half tripping over dirt and detritus.
As I began in an even earlier post (ADD & Organized?) . . .
Yea verily, even YOU can learn to be organized —
just as soon as you understand
the reasons why you’ve been stopped in the past.
Those of us who struggle with any of what are referred to as Executive Functions work a bit differently than those neurotypical folks. We do not have vanilla-flavored brains. We’re more like the ice cream with the mix-ins. Our stoppers are not their stoppers.
HERE’S the KICKER: it’s a different mix of stoppers for every single one of us.
So much for helpful hints and tidy lists!
That said, I’m going to go w-a-a-y out on a limb by offering my top ten organizing principles that I now call, collectively, The Executive Functioning Organizing Manifesto — a summary of some basic concepts that need to be embraced and understood if you want to have a shot at working out what you need to do for YOU to be organized.
In future posts in this series, I will expand on some of the points below.
For NOW, print ’em out and hang ’em up and follow them!