Wednesday, February 8, 2017 56 Comments
NOT what you think this post is going to be about!
by Madelyn Griffith-Haynie, CTP, CMC, ACT, MCC, SCAC
Another post in the Walking A Mile in Another’s Shoes Series
A relatively new study on nicotine and self medication (linked below in the Related Content) prompted me to revisit the topic of smoking.
Why do so many of us continue to do it?
WHY does it seem to be so difficult to put those smokes down — despite the black-box warnings that now come on every pack sold in the USA?
Science rings in
The link between self-medication and smoking really isn’t news to me, by the way, but some scientific validation is always reassuring.
An article I published early-ish in 2013 can be found HERE – where I discussed the relationship between nicotine’s psycho-stimulation, the brain, and the concept of “core benefits.”
For those of you who enjoy a bit of sarcasm with your information, it’s written in a rah-ther snarky tone toward the self-righteous – who, because of the way the brain responds, actually make it more difficult for people who need to quit with their nags and nudges.
Even if you don’t, you’ve probably never come across this particular point of view anywhere else as an explanation for why it can be such a struggle to quit — especially for those of us who are card-carrying members of Alphabet City.
I’ll give you just a little preview of what I mean by “snarky” below
(along with Cliff Notes™ of most of the info, for those of you with more interest than time).
HOLD YOUR HORSES!!
Sit on your hands if you must, but do your dead-level best to hear me out before you make it your business to burn up the keyboard telling me what I already know, okay?
I PROMISE YOU I have already heard everything
you are going to find it difficult not to flame at me.
There is not a literate human being in the United States (or the world) who hasn’t been made aware of every single argument you might attempt to burn into the retinas of every smoky throated human within any circle of influence you are able to tie down, shout down, argue down or otherwise pontificate toward.
NOW – can you listen for once? I’m not going to force you to inhale. I’m not even trying to change your mind. I would like to OPEN it a crack, however.
If you sincerely want to protect your friends and loved ones while you rid the world of the deleterious effects of all that nasty second-hand smoke, wouldn’t it make some sense to understand WHY your arguments continue to fall on deaf ears?
Unless you truly believe that saying the same thing for the two million and twenty-second time is going to suddenly make a difference —
or unless you don’t really care whether people stop smoking
or not as long as you get to rant and rave about it
— wouldn’t it make some sense to listen for a moment to WHY some of the people are still smoking?