How to navigate those “Home Alone” Holidays


The Single Person’s Holiday Playbook

(Putting an end to those awkward holidays!)

© Madelyn Griffith-Haynie, CTP, CMC, ACT, MCC, SCAC
An edited reblog of a previously published article

ENOUGH with the questions from well-meaning others!

Whether we are alone by choice or circumstance, holidays can be, at best, awkward.

Found on: Lolsnaps

“Have any plans for the upcoming holiday?” can be asked at any moment – even by total strangers trying to be friendly in grocery lines.

ANY version of, “Not really,” is something they do NOT, actually, want to hear.

Nor is it something that most of us who are already feeling marooned are eager to utter aloud.

No Mom, s/he won’t be coming

As any single person who’s ever gone “HOME for the holidays” can probably tell you, being “unpartnered” during special family events can present a unique set of challenges, especially the first time.

It runs the gamut:

  • from feeling awkward, maybe a bit defensive about your [lack of] relationship status this particular holiday,
  • all the way to feeling that you must either “ruin everyone’s holiday with a display of pique” -or-
  • grit your teeth, grin and bear it as you attempt to find a way to politely field unintentionally rude inquiries about why you happen to be alone.

The Formerly Familied

Far too many individuals who are divorced, widowed, separated (or outliving their families and many of their friends) can find solo-holidays sad and depressing.

A friend of mine, an emotionally healthy, extremely self-reliant, empty-nest single parent says her married kids “make other plans” for major holidays — at the very least every other year.

She really doesn’t resent the reality that the kids have their own lives, hope to start their own family traditions, and deserve to feel unconflicted about making holiday plans that won’t always include her,  BUT . . .

She says that she can’t face cooking a holiday meal for one OR going to a restaurant alone when everyone but her seems to have somebody celebrating WITH them.

She also finds it unbearably depressing to fuff around in her pajamas and slippers ALL day, even though she feels like she is “all dressed up with no place to go” if she doesn’t.

Reaching out to help others?

Even singles who volunteer at soup kitchens and so on have to make it through at least a portion of the day totally alone, at a time that was once known for family get-togethers.

People who never drink anything stronger than root beer have confessed that the idea of becoming a regular at their town’s version of the Cheers bar crosses their minds more than a few times, just to have somewhere to go and a few people to talk to on Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Years Eve.

Different ways to make it work . . .

Since I have spent most of the major holidays alone for many years now, I’m hoping that I will be able to help you look at things in ways you haven’t already thought of, tried and rejected.

In any case, I’m not planning to rehash the holiday survival tips already found all over the internet (but in case you have missed a few bloggy ideas, check out the articles under the Related Articles ’round the net heading in the links below the original post.)

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The Expectations Mismatch


Wikepedia: Norman Rockwell

Even those of us who love to shake things up relatively often tend to be traditionalists-at-heart where the major holidays are concerned. That tendency can make mood-management more difficult than it needs to be, however.

We are in danger of falling into a black and white thinking trap all too easily – then making ourselves and the holiday wrong if we aren’t able to reproduce every single element!

Make-wrong, by the way, is a term bandied about easily in the coaching community and, for the rest of you, it means exactly what you probably think it does.

Make-wrong is a particular view of the world and human interaction that appears to maintain that there is some single appropriate and proper way that things are to be handled and languaged (and that the person on the receiving end of any not-so-subtle comments is somehow NOT behaving appropriately, according to “the rules of the universe as absolutes in polite society.”)

It’s not always easy to put your finger on, but
most of us have been on the receiving end far too often!

What’s really sad is that, given enough exposure, most of us internalize the make-wrong to the extent that we begin to should all over ourselves!

SHOULD:

[noun] the way something is supposed to occur “when things are functioning correctly,” regardless of appropriateness to the current situation or individual;

[verb] communicating a personal world-view as if it were an undisputed standard of behavior; covert, indirect and manipulative – used subconsciously when the communicator is unwilling to express his or her preferences in an open and observable fashion; designed to enforce compliance through shame without taking ownership of the dynamic, remaining unconscious as a protective mechanism

[internalized] an adopted standard that is not in alignment with a person’s true values.

[used unconsciously] a nasty habit of language that keeps life small and mean

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
©Madelyn Griffith-Haynie, 1996-2016; from my upcoming ADD Coaching Glossary

Where the holidays are concerned, we can hardly be blamed for wanting to recreate that special glow we so fondly recall – but the instant it begins to slide over into SHOULD territory, we’re setting ourselves up for misery.

So what’s a poor Single to DO?

Well you could take a page from the fabulous Teagan Geneviene and host a virtual party.

Hop over to her Three Things Serial 1920s Party — either to join in on the fun or to peer through a virtual window to see what in the world I’m talking about!

There are a ton of very jolly “official” writers in attendance, but I’m sure a few bloggers have slipped in as well — so don’t feel like you must bring a link to a book you’ve published to be welcomed warmly.

I’ve actually moved the post date up on this article to give more of you a chance to party hearty.

As long as you make up your mind to communicate without dragging your misery along, virtual parties can be a great deal of fun – and you will likely increase the size of your virtual community quite a bit.

If that’s not your particular cup of tea, make sure you click to the rest of the article for some tips on shaking up the paradigm completely.  Continue to the remainder of the article, with the bulk of the tips, after the following description of . . .

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As the remainder of the original article concludes
(once you click the link below for the tips):

  • Don’t set yourself for a good hit of resentment and a miserable holiday time and when nobody is available.
  • Make sure you “set things up so that you get to win” — even if you spend most of your holidays alone in the future.

CLICK HERE for the original article to read the Single Person Holiday tips . . .

Comments are encouraged and eagerly awaited below OR under the original article – EVEN from Grinches and Humbugs – as long as you don’t make individual people wrong, and do your best to avoid the dreaded “should” word, I will approve all comers (link-spammers shot on sight, however).

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About Madelyn Griffith-Haynie, MCC, SCAC
Award-winning ADD Coach Training Field founder; ADD Coaching field co-founder; [life] Coaching pioneer -- Neurodiversity Advocate, Coach, Mentor & Poster Girl -- Multi-Certified -- 25 years working with EFD [Executive Functioning disorders] and struggles in hundreds of people from all walks of life. I developed and delivered the world's first ADD-specific coach training curriculum: multi-year, brain-based, and ICF Certification tracked. In addition to my expertise in ADD/EF Systems Development Coaching, I am known for training and mentoring globally well-informed ADD Coach LEADERS with the vision to innovate, many of the most visible, knowledgeable and successful ADD Coaches in the field today (several of whom now deliver highly visible ADD coach trainings themselves). For almost a decade, I personally sponsored and facilitated seven monthly, virtual and global, no-charge support and information groups The ADD Hours™ - including The ADD Expert Speakers Series, hosting well-known ADD Professionals who were generous with their information and expertise, joining me in my belief that "It takes a village to educate a world." I am committed to being a thorn in the side of ADD-ignorance in service of changing the way neurodiversity is thought about and treated - seeing "a world that works for everyone" in my lifetime. Get in touch when you're ready to have a life that works BECAUSE of who you are, building on strengths to step off that frustrating treadmill "when 'wanting to' just doesn't get it DONE!"

49 Responses to How to navigate those “Home Alone” Holidays

  1. dgkaye says:

    Thanks for visiting my blog Madelyn, or may not have found yours. Now following! Love what you represent. 🙂 Happy New Year.

    Liked by 1 person

    • You are very welcome. I’d like to pop by more often in 2017 – how do I follow YOU so I get reminders?
      xx,
      mgh

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      • dgkaye says:

        Lol, I just followed your blog too! Unfortunately because I’m self hosted there is no ‘follow’ button, so you can put your email in top right corner of side bar to get weekly posts. Also, I’ve been told, that some have found my posts in the ‘Reader’. My week of posts go out every Tuesday morning. 🙂

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        • I don’t know how likely my ADD eyes are to find your email among the marketing e-glut that seems to increase daily no matter what I’ll do – but, for YOU, I will make an exception to my “don’t follow by email” rule (and try to remember to look for it on Tuesdays). 🙂

          As a result of a bodacious chronorhythm sleep disorder (N-24), I am *rarely* awake in what everyone else considers “morning” (unless I am still awake from an especially late “night” before) – so please forgive if I lose patience before I’ve found you on some weeks when the e-glut is particularly dense.

          xx,
          mgh

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          • dgkaye says:

            I’m honored Madelyn. No apologies necessary. I hear you loud and clear on the over abundance of incoming emails! You can always try typing DGKayewriter.com in the ‘search’ in the WP Reader too. 🙂

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            • Oooh – that sounds like a plan! I do check in with the Reader at least daily.

              NOW to build the new habit – which always seems to take me longer than the average bear but, since I understand & embrace the importance, I probably keep at building habits for longer than the rest of those bears too. 🙂
              xx,
              mgh

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            • dgkaye says:

              You sound so organized! So happy to connect. xo 🙂

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            • I DO sound organized, don’t I? (Do not expect to step foot one in my house and maintain that impression, however.)

              Actually, I AM extremely organized – I have to be to compensate for more than a few broken links up there in my grey-matter. What I’m NOT is what others seem to consider neat – and I am profoundly attached to the idea that, when we die, none of us are likely to say, “Oh darn! I wish I’d spent more time cleaning.”

              Ditto re: connection.
              xx, mgh

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            • dgkaye says:

              Lol, love your attitude!!! 🙂 ❤

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            • Ditto! (Does that mean your house looks like a hurricane hit it too?) xx, mgh

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            • dgkaye says:

              Like you, I love everything clean. But yes it seems tornadoes do happen here with pile ups, mostly papers out of control. 🙂

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            • I love everything clean AND neat – just not enough to put them ahead of everything *else* on my need-to-do and want-to-do list.

              It seems that something always comes along to bump those first two further down on the MUST do list. (and that’s before anything bloggy inserts itself).
              xx,
              mgh

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            • dgkaye says:

              Oh ya, sounds like my life, LOL. 🙂 ❤

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            • We *all* need WIVES lol (or super-great housekeepers) xx, mgh

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            • dgkaye says:

              🙂 🙂 🙂 xo

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  3. Reblogged this on Kate McClelland.

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    • I won’t be home alone THIS Christmas Day, invited to the blended family table of a colleague, but am trying out a newly minted church for their candlelit service Christmas Eve. I may have to top my outfit with a Santa hat if I don’t get my roots colored before that – lol. 🙂
      xx,
      mgh

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      • Hahahaha! Candlelit service sounds nice.

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        • It’s been a few years since I’ve been to one, so I’m really looking forward to it – even in a Santa hat!
          xx,
          mgh

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  5. Lizzi says:

    I’m really lucky to live in a family home of singles, so we’ll just spend time being alone together and all FOR each other. Thank goodness!

    LOVE your glossary of ‘should’ – that’s a word I often trip over.

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    • Thanks. There are so many other ways to express similar concepts of “doing what’s better” without heaping on shame.

      “Should” is a shut-down word – and it takes a great deal of attention to change the bad habit of using it unconsciously. Fortunately, it IS a habit – and habits can be changed.

      I love the idea of a family home of singles. It sounds warm and wonderful. I’d love to live in a house like that. Merry Christmas to ALL of you, Lizzi.
      xx,
      mgh

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      • Lizzi says:

        A shame you’re too distant to join us but it really does make all the difference. For the first time in years and years I’m really looking forward to Christmas. This time last year I’d just run away from home and everything was jangly…now I feel safe, and that’s HUGE!

        Should is definitely a habitual thing and maybe should (ha ha!) go on my list of new year’s resolutions to get rid of!

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        • Sorry to read that home was something you had to run away from – but it sounds like you found a wonderful new home to run TO. It’s hard to accomplish much of anything until we feel safe. It IS huge!

          “Should is definitely a habitual thing and maybe [it would be a great idea for it to] go on my list of new year’s resolutions to get rid of!”

          Feel the difference?
          xx,
          mgh

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          • Lizzi says:

            Yup. I see the habit has its claws in hard! 🙂

            I do have a wonderful home at the moment and I’m very lucky. I just hugged and thanked Mum and WonderAunty for keeping me and giving me a safe year 🙂

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            • Well I’ll send a prayer of thanks to them as well. xx, mgh

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  6. reocochran says:

    I have too many choices among my family so I chose for 4 years in a row to go spend quiet moments with my Mom. This year my three grown children brought their children up to see Mom for Thanksgiving. This was to convince me they need me here where everyone lives. Mom seemed fine and my 2 brothers with one SIL will fill in for me. As I approach the holidays, I am more excited this year.
    I liked the idea of giving yourself something special or meaningful, Madelyn. hugs xo ~ Robin

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    • I always end up giving myself a little something anyway – and it means more (and lasts longer) to spend money on memories, even in years where all I can afford is a nice breakfast where somebody else does the dishes!

      How wonderful that you have “too many choices” – when I was in New York that was my situation too. Here in Cincinnati, I’m lucky to have ONE choice! But as long as my pup and I are warm, dry and fed, I’m grateful. So many people don’t have even that.
      xx,
      mgh

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  7. Scott Nagele says:

    Interesting. Before I got married, I spent many Christmases alone, but I worked retail then, so I enjoyed having a quiet day to myself. Now, it’s just the opposite: I work a peaceful job but spend Christmas in the chaos of overexcited children.

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    • A big city girl at heart, I have almost always preferred more than a bit of hustle and bustle in December – but have been forced to make friends with quieter/solo times out of necessity, since leaving NYC.

      It’s ironic, actually, in the “be careful what you wish for” manner. There were a few years when things were SO “over-peopled” that all I really wanted was solo peace and quiet so that nothing stood in the way of napping for days and days or listening to my own thoughts without anyone competing for my attention.

      I try to use that memory as a lesson – appreciate what you’ve got goin’ on right NOW!

      Thanks for visiting and taking the time to comment – and Merry Christmas/Happy Holidays!
      xx,
      mgh

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  8. Hi Madelyn. Thanks so very much for the shout-out! I hope you enjoyed my little 1920s soiree. It’s still going, so pop back in and leave as many links as you want.

    I’m in agreement with you about “should.” For years I’ve been saying that *should* is the most harmful word in the English language. Closely followed by *sweet*… I’ve openly told people how offensive “Sweet” is when they apply it to me… and they plow right through my protest. Others express their shock and incomprehension that I hate the term. But “She’s so sweet — let’s give her something important to do…” was never uttered in a board room. “She’s so sweet — wouldn’t she make a great executive,” said no one ever…

    Okay… I’ll leave my Julia Sugarbaker soapbox. Wishing you a wonderful week. Hugs!

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    • Well THIS sucks – I replied with no doubt more words than I needed, but it disappeared into the ether — and didn’t even approve your wonderful comment.

      FORTUNATELY, I drafted the beginning in a text file, so here ’tis at least part of it again:
      ~~~~
      I’m in agreement with YOU about “sweet!” – In fact, in the American South, “Isn’t she sweet?” is a thinly veiled insult, as is “Bless her little heart” — both of which mean, essentially, “She’s a bit of an idiot but we’re pretending to say nice things about her.”

      EVEN when people clearly mean well, I’m a Julia Sugarbaker type of woman myself: anything diminutive – even nicknames for Madelyn – rankle. EVEN as a kid!

      The WordPress reblog function is not very ADD/EFD friendly; instead I do a lot of linking of “Related content” as my way of supporting the blogs of people I follow — especially those who “deserve” it because they support blogs other than their own – and/or like, comment or follow over here — especially the writers. In my experience you guys are amazing in your support of others.

      The idea of a virtual party was perfect for this post – so I was thrilled to be able to post it a bit early so I could add a shout out that also served as an example.

      Merry Christmas. I’ll stop by again to read any comments I missed and maybe leave another link or two. Don’t be a stranger.
      xx,
      mgh

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      • No worries, Madelyn. The party is still there, if a little less exuberant.
        I’m sorry about the lost comment — that’s happened to me more than once. I know how frustrating it is. 🙄 🙂
        It was absolutely exhausting to create that post with so many links, and then again to proof and fine tune it… BUT it was very much worth the effort.
        I try to support and visit other blogs as much as I can… **And I don’t talk about this on my own blog** There’s just so little time with full-time work, looking for a job in a better climate (and godhelpme a better culture!), and looking for a home in a place where I might have a better chance at that job if I already lived there… (I’ve been trying to get a job elsewhere for 5 years. Trying hard, being flexible, willing to take less, do other work — and failing miserably.) So you get the idea… Minutes spent not working on that feel like a luxury. Time to get to the office.
        Have a terrific Tuesday. Hugs.

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        • I truly get it – I can’t tell you how much time I spend linking (and formatting, and editing, and proofing – and that’s before I factor in visiting, commenting and responding).

          Your party was way over the top compared to anything I have ever posted – and THEN responding to all the comments. Whew! GOOD job.

          I also feel the time/roof-over-head/food-on-table challenge most days. It’s a struggle to find life balance – and you’d probably be one of the few who would understand what I’ve had to be willing to forgo.

          I get the *job* struggle too. With my sleep disorder, I’m rather limited in what kind of work for others I could do, and working for myself is . . . well, a LOT of work! It eats life whole. 🙂

          May 2017 be the year you find meaningful work that doesn’t feel like work!
          xx,
          mgh

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  9. Why are you still single! Well, I’ve never been married. Nor have I been divorced. I have no kids. I’m not secretly a lesbian. I’m just fussy! What’s wrong with that? I’ve just committed to going home for 6 days. That will undoubtedly be 5 days too many to be isolated in a bedroom with my fur-baby and my laptop. I wasn’t going but I was guilted by family who told me they would not feel guilty if I didn’t go. I just could not win. At least I won’t be eating baked beans on toast, which I would never resort to and seen as the epitome of single girl home alone. See you on the other side!

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    • WHY? hmmmm – and that is your business because ????? (I never know how to answer that ‘still’ single question, even when I KNOW they mean well, it always gets my hackles up).

      Try to enjoy yourself and your family this Christmas. I’m going with a colleague to her ex-husband’s for dinner on Christmas Day (long story – nice vibe there usually). So I’m sure there will be turkey and pumpkin pie, so I won’t be eating baked beans on [gluten free] toast either. LOL
      xx, mgh

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  10. jac forsyth says:

    I’ve been thinking about his too. There is a passive nature to Christmas, we know the rules, we’ve been domesticated in the rituals of perceived normality and so of course it feels like a failure not to meet the criteria. And, as yet, there are no real alternative pathways out there in the mainstream of consciousness.
    So, what if being alone at Christmas was considered the pinnacle of human achievement? How would I relate to it then? What would I choose to do?

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    • That’s an unique reframe – and certainly positive. In my experience, however, if your subconscious can’t really believe it, all you are affirming is that you need to be careful about what you tell yourself.

      I hope you jumped over to read the reframes I suggest (in the link to the original article). They might lead that creative brain of yours in a few new directions.

      Thanks for visiting and taking the time to comment – and Merry Christmas/Happy Holidays!
      xx,
      mgh

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      • jac forsyth says:

        Haha, that’s true enough, my subconscious is a real trooper. I’ll check out the link. Merry Christmas/Happy Holidays to you too 💕

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        • Mine too (how/why do you think I came up with this stuff?)
          xx,
          mgh

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  11. Lucy Brazier says:

    Fabulous article, my dear Madelyn! On Christmas Day I am having a casual, open-house arrangement for ‘those with nowhere better to be’. There will be food and drink and an eclectic mish-mash of people – the recently widowed and divorced, some German friends who are not going home for Christmas, elderly neighbours and anyone else who fancies a bit of company on 25th. I am perfectly happy with my own company but there are many who are not and as I love to cook (and throw a party!) this seemed like the thing to do. No one need go hungry or lonely if they can find their way to my house 🙂

    Wishing all your wonderful readers a super Christmas and New Year, however they spend it, and of course the biggest hugs and festive wishes to you, my dear friend. I shall be raising a glass to you on the day!
    xx

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    • Oh how I wish I lived close enough to drop by with a bottle of bubbly!

      When I lived in NYC I usually hosted an “orphans” T-giving and Christmas – and a HUGE bring-a-friend deck the halls party. The only “rule” was that they needed to bring a candle – which we would BURN during the party, I told them, so go for cheap! The metaphor is that the space is lit by the people in the room – and just a bit darker for friends who couldn’t make it. (but really, I didn’t have to clean as stringently — lol — I actually put 25 watt bulbs in all the lights too!).

      Dress code was “festive – whatever that means to you” – so people came in everything from sweats to sequins. Much fun & great memories – and I hope to make enough friends here to maybe be able to do it again next year.

      As long as we are warm & dry, fed and healthy, and have at least the company of something live and furry, we are indeed blessed, however we spend Christmas.
      xx,
      mgh

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      • Lucy Brazier says:

        I wish you could pop along too! What fun that would be! Your Christmas parties sound wonderful – I do like the candle idea very much. Candles are always very festive, not to mention beautiful, and everyone and everything looks so much lovelier by candlelight! Also negating the need for fastidious cleaning is a huge bonus – if your parties are anything like mine, the place always looks like a bomb’s hit it the next morning anyway. But there is something quite wonderful about getting up in the morning and witnessing the aftermath of a party well enjoyed. To all those revellers, furry or not, I wish the happiest and healthiest of festivities, whatever that means to you!
        xx

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        • Funny – as much as I really do NOT like to clean, I’ve never minded it in the afterglow of a party.

          You WILL be posting pictures of your festivities I hope.
          xx,
          mgh

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          • Lucy Brazier says:

            I may well sneak a few piccies online, yes! I have my festive onesie at the ready – my Christmas uniform! The best thing is, it takes me from day to night, party to aftermath and is perfect sprawling out on the settee and writing my book / watching bad films. Bring on the Christmas!
            xx

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            • Here, here! Bring on the onesies too! Mine turned to tatters, I wore it so often. I must find myself another – but my flannel jammies are doing nicely meanwhile, which I wear with a pair of [faux] fur-lined slipper boots sent from a dear friend one Christmas. JUST the thing for winter-cold floors.
              xx,
              mgh

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            • Lucy Brazier says:

              I am a big fan of the furry slipper boots! I just had to consign my pair to the bin as they smelled terrible and were falling apart. But fear not – each year Santa makes sure I have a new pair so I only have a few more days to wait!
              xx

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            • Mine are still holding up nicely – and they’re washable in cold water too! xx, mgh

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