Sunday, April 28, 2013 2 Comments
“Extreme” Self-Care Coaching Lab:
Tending the Mind, Body, Heart and Spirit
by Peggy Ramundo, BS, A.C.T., SCAC
Madelyn Griffith-Haynie, CTP, CMC, ACT, MCC, SCAC
Speaker’s Content ACO 2013: Part 1
Extreme Self-Care is simple, but not easy
What Is It? Putting your Self at the TOP of your To-Do List!
What follows is a synthesis of Conference Binder materials and Speaker’s Notes from the Coaching Lab presented during the ACO Conference in Atlanta: April 2013
Extreme self-care is the foundation of a fulfilling life. To experience a high quality life, you need a “high quality you.” The only way to BE at your very best is to DO the very best for you — by making the quality of your life your #1 priority.
Extreme self-care means making intentional decisions about what you want — what brings you peace, joy, and happiness — getting into the zone, where you are in energetic alignment with your Highest Good.
- It is about turning a deaf ear to the Should’s espoused by others and by your own Inner Critic.
- It is about giving yourself permission to “say no” to those people and things that drain your resources of time and energy and ramp up your feelings of overwhelm.
Why It’s Essential
Remember the instructions flight attendants give passengers traveling with children regarding what to do in the event of a decrease in cabin air pressure?
Put the mask over your nose and mouth first and then over your children’s.
The reason, of course, is that you can’t help anyone else
if you are gasping for air yourself.
“Life is similar: while suffering, suffocating, starved, sapped, or scared,
we are in no condition to assist [a client or] a friend in need,
much less be able to take pleasure in the moment.
Simply put, healthy “selfishness” is necessary for bringing joy
to others as well as to ourselves.” ~ Marcia Reynolds